“Stitches in God's Tapestry: The Benefits and Beauty of Multigenerational Relationships"
written by Eliza Epple, class of 2026
I sat around a circular white table with friends, yarn in hand, crafting a new stuffed doll for my Church’s crochet ministry. Those beside me created stuffed animals of their own, carefully forming every stitch. Our group leader brought massive amounts of yarn that lay on other tables, and a multitude of colorful, handmade stuffed animals were on display. Conversation flowed freely. We laughed with and listened to one another, enjoying each other's company. The connection in this ministry was strong, despite the fact that there were people of many different ages and walks of life. In reality, our bonds were strengthened by our different perspectives and ideas. I listened, gaining unique insight from the lives of the older women. One friend of mine, a kindergarten teacher, was sharing thoughtful advice on how to effectively teach children to be better problem solvers. Looking around the room, I realized that these beloved friends of diverse ages and walks of life each championed a unique perspective. In this crafting ministry, older and younger generations worked together to benefit the recipients of their dolls, but their shared goal, conversations, and presence also served to benefit one another.
This is an example of a unique form of friendship commonly known as multigenerational relationships, an idea that applies to any friendship consisting of individuals who do not share a common season of life or age. Multigenerational relationships are also distinct in their ability to effectively enhance the strengths of people from different generations. Although much can be learned from friendships of people of similar ages and backgrounds, the shared connection between different generations uniquely teaches important life skills to people of both older and younger generations. Christian communities have the responsibility to value and advance multigenerational relationships because they promote greater understanding among generations due to shared wisdom and inspiration; they are mutually beneficial to health and emotional growth; and they are part of the inherent design of the Church.
Historically, multigenerational relationships have existed primarily in the form of multigenerational living. In ancient China, for instance, it was normal for households to consist of at least three generations. This lifestyle was based on Confucian philosophy of respect for elders and filial piety (Singh, 2025). Younger members of the family were expected to seek advice from the elders they lived with on important decisions. Another example of multigenerational living can be found in the medieval practice of knight training. In order for a young man to become a knight, he had to fulfill a series of responsibilities. When a boy filled the role of squire, he took care of an older knight, befriending and simultaneously learning from him (Cartwright, 2018). A squire was expected to follow his knight in battle so he could closely observe his skill while learning to emulate it himself. The process of knight-training hinged on the idea that learning and growth is best done in multigenerational community.
Specifically in the United States, multigenerational living similar to that in China was the norm before the Industrial Revolution. It was common for parents to live with their adult children and young grandchildren in rural environments. Due to the effects of the Industrial Revolution, however, multigenerational living was replaced by a new lifestyle for many. Land was more expensive, houses became smaller, and people were forced to move into urban environments. Fewer families lived in multigenerational homes, and it was around this time that the first nursing homes began to appear. Multigenerational living continued to decline significantly after WWII and reached its lowest point in the 1980’s. Today, multigenerational living has made a resurgence, with one in five American households consisting of multiple generations. This is largely due to the economic difficulties for both younger people to buy homes and older people to retire (Dream, 2026). Despite this shift, multigenerational living and friendships are still not the norm. In fact, one report on CBS (2024) shows a new robot powered by artificial intelligence for elderly companionship. Instead of spending time to better understand and help their older relatives, people can opt for a robot to take this responsibility. This story reveals the current cultural perspective on multigenerational relationships as unimportant and unworthy of time and effort. This begs the question: how has the western view of multigenerational relationships gone so drastically far from its historical importance? What ideas, people, and events paved the way for the current cultural expression on the topic of multigenerational relationships?
One such foundational idea that shaped this way of thinking can be attributed to the ideals and beliefs formed during the enlightenment. One enlightenment Philosophe, Jean-Jaques Rousseau, famously wrote that, “Man is born free; and everywhere he is in chains” (Rousseau, 1913). Through these words, he argues that man is most liberated when he is unencumbered by the responsibilities and limitations of society. According to Rousseau, people who are less immersed in the world, such as younger generations, are more free. This is a very prominent mindset in today’s world, and it creates a culture that prizes the idealism of youth over the tried and true wisdom of age. For instance, the sociological phenomenon known as ageism, or the discrimination of older adults, has stealthily taken root in western culture. As one author from the American Psychology Association put it, “From ‘antiaging’ face creams to wisecracking birthday cards about getting older to ‘OK, boomer’ memes, the message is clear: Being old is something to avoid” (Weir, 2023, para. 1). In a society that believes aging is undesirable and makes fun of the generations that deserve the most respect, the very notion of befriending someone of a different generation is called into question. Ultimately, Rousseau’s idea laid the foundation of a culture that disregards the elderly.
One resulting cultural barrier to multigenerational relationships is the fact that the world moves and changes much faster than it has for most of history. With the prevalence of new technology that has only been in widespread use for roughly twenty years, the wisdom of older generations can feel outdated or unrelatable. The world is moving so fast that the elderly have become apparently more obsolete. One example of this is that children today are growing up in a culture of immediacy. Studies show that 90% of children in the United States aged 13-14 own a smartphone (Bazen, 2026). This creates a vastly different society than that experienced by those children’s grandparents. It may be true that older generations offer less advice on the latest technology or problems that arise because of these advances. Still, all people are able to learn truths about living in a fallen world regardless of the specifics of their life experience. As the biblical Wise Man wrote, “...there is nothing new under the sun” (Eccl. 1:9, NIV). Human nature, although it may be perceived in different forms, does not change. That is why the barrier of chronological context shouldn't be used as an excuse against multigenerational relationships. Befriending someone of a different generation is a worthwhile pursuit. Christians should be the first to bring this truth to the world.
To begin, multigenerational relationships are valuable to the Christian because they promote greater understanding among generations due to shared wisdom and inspiration. Imagine a team of sled dogs racing across hills of icy snow. If tasked with pairing each dog, it would seem obvious to make groups that are equal in speed and skill. After all, this would produce a team that runs evenly (Snowhook, 2026). In reality, it is best to pair younger, less experienced dogs with older dogs. This way, the younger dog is able to learn from the positive example of their companion, producing better obedience and discipline than any command from a musher could bring. Each dog is encouraged, supported, and challenged by its companion, and the team runs a smooth race because of it. This is a powerful illustration of the human reality that youth can effectively learn life experience from the wisdom of the elderly.
The young uniquely energize and inspire the old, and the old give wisdom and life experience to the young. Western culture, however, is prone to believe that young people are more wise than older people because they are unencumbered by the cares of society and more adept at the latest technology. The result is that our world has consistently idolized the passion, outspokeness, and even wisdom of younger generations. This was especially true during the counterculture movement of the 1960s and 1970s in which generations of teenagers and young adults rebelled from their elders and traditional society. In the years prior to this movement, the 1950s, the economy was stable. After surviving the horrors of WWII, people wanted to provide a safe world for their children. They held to traditional values, especially the importance of family (Hayes, 2022). When the counterculture movement began years later, however, the youth rejected the hard-won wisdom of their parents and chose to forge their own way. This new generation (the largest in human history, in fact), mistrusted their elders, considering them too outdated and set in their ways.
In reality, the passionate idealism of the youth is not always bad, nor is the stern wisdom of the old. Both are equally vital for a strong society. As Dr. Timothy Padgett (2019) wrote,
[Young people] have passion and strength that enables them to long for great things, but they don’t yet have the wisdom to know how to accomplish them. What they need is the maturity and wisdom that comes with age and experience. They need to be told by those who’ve gone before that just because they have an idea, that doesn’t mean it’s a good one. They need the guidance from their elders to tell them not to give up trying but to keep in mind that changing the world isn’t as easy as it sounds at the late night coffee shop. (para. 18)
Young people are bold and ambitious, but they often lack the wisdom to hold those powerful qualities in check. They can become so enthralled with their new ideas that they intentionally cut themselves off from their elders, causing the older generation to become unmotivated without the vigor of youth. As a result, this shared wisdom and inspiration is lost. They need the influence of older people who have truly been tested by life’s goodness and challenges. When this happens, when the wisdom of the old balances the boldness of the young, when the liveliness of the young inspires the old, both sides benefit. Each side gains the greatest strength of the other, and their weaknesses are reduced. Both older and younger generations become better equipped to face life’s challenges, and they are ready to do it alongside one another. It is only when these two forces become disconnected that conflict ensues.
Tuesdays with Morrie by Mitch Albom provides an example of this beautiful reality of multigenerational relationships. This is a memoir recounting the author’s last visits with his old sociology professor, Morrie. Morrie had recently been diagnosed with ALS, leaving him only a short time to live. Determined to make the most of his remaining lifetime, he continued to invest in others: his students, family, and friends. Every Tuesday, Morrie and Mitch talked about various, meaningful topics, such as love, friendship, money, life, and death. Throughout their “class,” both teacher and pupil benefit from their shared wisdom, inspiration, and friendship. As Albom wrote at the end of his memoir, “No books were required. The subject was the meaning of life. It was taught from experience. The teaching goes on” (Albom, 1997, p. 192). Morrie gave Mitch the precious gift of his life experiences. This made Mitch a more equipped person to face the challenges and see the joys of life. For Morrie, their unique friendship gave him meaningful work and comfort in his final days. The last time Mitch and Morrie saw each other before Morrie’s death, Morrie told his student how much he meant to him. Morrie was given someone to whom he could impart his vast amount of wisdom. This was comforting and meaningful to him (Albom, 1997, p. 184). Both Mitch and Morrie benefitted immensely from their uniquely multigenerational friendship. This story shows the goodness that comes from the inspiration of the young joining forces with the wisdom of the old. It is a beautiful reality, and a reality that matters.
This reality is also hard-won. A common thread in Morrie’s life and the lives of the generation that lived through the horrors of WWII is constant trial and testing. Many WWII veterans lost friends and family as a result of the conflict. This generation’s hardships taught them a great deal about living life. Although much of this influence was lost because of the counterculture movement, Morrie was able to effectively provide wisdom to Mitch in his final battle with ALS. Through this example it is clear that older people can benefit younger generations by testifying to the hardships of life and how to overcome them. What would happen if this entire next generation of young people grow up without that tribulation and experience? What kind of society would be created if the role of older generations to impart the wisdom gained from their suffering is weakened?
In contrast to the generation that lived through the World Wars, a new standard of comfort has been ushered in for younger generations by the rapid technological and sociological changes that have taken place in the most recent decades. This creates an undemanding lifestyle that can cause generations to become weak. Life has never been and never will be easy, but modern life has given people new and increasing ways to distract themselves from engaging fully with life’s challenges. If many people of younger generations continue to accept this form of comfort and refuse to face the joys and trials of life, they will have a much more shallow “well” of perspective and wisdom to draw from once they are considered the older generation. Instead of shying away from tribulation, it is best to “...glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope” (Rom. 5:3-4, NIV). These three things: perseverance, character, and hope, are exactly what must be given to younger generations to fuel them for the future. Ultimately, multigenerational relationships are best suited to transferring this kind of experience and wisdom. For this reason, Christians should highly esteem them.
Multigenerational relationships are also valuable to the Christian because they are mutually beneficial to health and emotional growth. The reality that God made people to enjoy and thrive in community is seen all throughout creation. One example can be found in the early Church community as described in the Book of Acts. “Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people…” (Acts. 2:46-47, NIV). This vision of community is a design that is central to the Christian life. This applies to all friendships, as well as multigenerational relationships.
One example of this truth can be found in a documentary about Blue Zones, places around the earth with a high number of centenarians, who are people who live over 100 years.
Such a community exists on the island of Sardinia. Although there are many contributing factors to these people’s longevity, one of them is the constant connection they have with their younger relatives. There are no nursing homes in Sardinia. It is normal for younger family members to care for their parents and grandparents when they need help. As a result, there are many centenarians in Sardinia (Jeter, 2023). This evidence suggests that there is something about multigenerational connection that is healthy for people, even to the extent that it causes people to live longer. This is a strong hint that God designed humanity to be fundamentally relational.
Once this design is violated, however, isolation replaces connection, causing emotional and even health problems to ensue. A lack of friendship, specifically multigenerational connection, is unhealthy. From 2018-2020, the University of Michigan did a poll on adults aged 50-80 to determine the percentage of them who feel lonely. The poll was conducted in two rounds. The first round was completed before the Covid-19 pandemic in October of 2018, and the second was done after the pandemic in June of 2020. One statistic from this study showed that 56% of older adults felt socially isolated during June 2020 compared to only 27% in 2018 (Piette, 2020). This dramatic increase in loneliness was likely due to the lack of social connection during the Covid-19 pandemic. Although all families were advised to stay home, older adults were especially at risk of the disease. This put a pause on all activities that once kept older adults active. Additionally, the poll showed data that increased loneliness had a direct correlation with increased health problems. Instead of routinely leaving home to socialize and exercise, they were socially isolated at home. As shown by this research, a lack of multigenerational connection and friendship is damaging to one’s health.
Multigenerational relationships are a transaction of wisdom and inspiration. This has immense benefits in navigating life, but it also improves the emotional and mental state of both older and younger generations. One article suggests that children learn better when taught by older adults. One primary school in London saw increased literacy rates after implementing a conversation-based learning style involving older adults. Additionally, the research showed that multigenerational learning is especially impactful when teaching history and culture subjects. Multigenerational learning was also shown to benefit the emotional formation of children (Barton, 2023). This shows that living and learning in multigenerational community has direct emotional benefits.
This picture of health and emotional benefits from multigenerational relationships directly contradicts today’s view of friendship. It is true that multigenerational friendship has immense benefits, but that does not guarantee its consistent ease. “Multigenerational living [and relationships in general] involves sacrifices of time, convenience, and space in order to care for others” (DeVito, 2024). Through a modern lens, this sacrifice is not worthwhile and even dangerous. Many people today say they “need space” from a relationship because it becomes too emotionally taxing and dangerous to mental health. The minute the friendship becomes sacrificial, it is in danger of being considered not worth pursuing (Davis, 2023). Ultimately, this tendency springs from the individualistic age. This is a time in which people are being encouraged, whether it is through advertisements, movies, or respected people, to serve themselves first. Although this mindset is seen in all kinds of relationships, it is especially common in multigenerational relationships. Unlike a friendship with people of a similar age who have had similar life experiences, multigenerational relationships require more effort to learn and understand a person whose existence is different. There are immense benefits as a result of this effort, but today’s perception of multigenerational relationships and friendship itself is a severe obstacle. Instead, Christians are called to deny themselves, especially when it comes to difficult relationships. John writes that, “Greater love has no one than this, that someone lay down his life for his friends” (John 15:13, ESV). It may require sacrifice, but pursuing multigenerational relationships has such emotional and health benefits that it is worthwhile.
Finally, multigenerational relationships are valuable to the Christian because they are part of the inherent design of the Church. The Church is made up of people from all throughout history. In the new heavens and the new earth, Christians from the Middle Ages will worship God alongside brothers and sisters from modern times, and people from different nations will all bow down before one God. It follows, then, that people from all different generations are woven together through the Gospel and the work of Jesus Christ. In the same way that the body of Christ is made up of people of different talents, gifts, and personalities, the Church is also composed of people of all ages. Every generation is meant to beautifully worship alongside one another. As Paul writes in Philippians, “At the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Phil. 2:10-11, ESV). All generations are meant to witness to God’s glory and goodness.
This is a beautiful reality, but it is also an urgent one. One statistic states that adults over 65 are projected to go from 15.2% of the population in 2016 to 23.4% in 2060, while children under eighteen are projected to go from 22.8% of the population in 2016 to 19.8% in 2060. (United States, 2018). If this trend continues, older adults will vastly outnumber the youngest generation. This creates an opportunity for younger Christians to love their older neighbor. It is important for Christians to find an older mentor. Investing time and energy into caring for and learning from someone of a different generation is worthwhile. This is also an incredible time of potential influence and leadership from older adults. Again, regardless of age, it is vital for older Christians to find a young person to share life experience and wisdom with.
Each generation has a unique role to play in the Church. All kinds of responsibilities must not be overlooked or deemed unworthy. As Paul wrote in 1 Corinthians,
For the body does not consist of one member but of many. If the foot should say, ‘Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,’ that would not make it any less a part of the body. And if the ear should say, ‘Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,’ that would not make it any less part of the body. If the whole body were an eye, where would be the sense of hearing? If the whole body were an ear, where would be the sense of smell? But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. If all were a single member, where would the body be? As it is, there are many parts, yet one body. (1 Cor. 12:12-20, ESV)
These verses show that all roles within the body of Christ are necessary and important. Both older and younger Church members are to be included in kingdom-work. Too often in the modern Church, however, one role is elevated and glorified above the rest, leaving those not recognized feeling useless and unimportant. This circumstance is best described using the Battery vs. Baton mentality (McCoy, 2025, p. 22).
The Handing over the Baton Mentality is the type of community in which only one group of people is in the seat of influence at a time. Instead of all generations working together to serve God’s Kingdom, only one generation is in charge. This mentality especially hurts older generations. When their time has come to give their influence and leadership off to the next generation, older Church members are shunted to the side, feeling apathetic and purposeless. However, this idea is also damaging for young people. Because they have not been given “the baton” yet, younger generations easily become complacent, and much of their energy and skill is wasted. This causes the younger generation to be less equipped when they finally receive their “baton”. The greatest issue with this mindset, however, is that it implies that only one generation is active at a time (McCoy, 2025).
The battery mentality is a much better way to think about the unique roles of each generation within the Church. Instead of only one generation having influence at a time, all generations are working alongside each other to further God’s Kingdom. No one generation is too old, and no one generation is too young. All generations help one another, building each other up and serving together. As the name “battery mentality” suggests, the older and younger generations recharge one another, the old teaching the young, and the young inspiring the old. Two exhortations from scripture support this vision. In 1 Timothy, Paul calls his friend, Timothy, to be a light to others despite his young age. “Don’t let anyone look down on you because you are young, but set an example for the believers in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith and in purity” (1 Tim. 4:12, NIV). Additionally, the book of Job points this out about the strengths of older generations; “Wisdom is with the aged, and understanding in length of days” (Job 12:12, ESV). Both older and younger generations have unique roles to fulfill in the Church community, and both are equally worthy and important. All members of the body of Christ are valuable. As Wilson McCoy put it in his book, “Imagining All Generations”, “Every generation matters because God’s saving love impacts every generation” (McCoy, 2025). Therefore, Christians should uphold multigenerational relationships for their importance in the Church community.
Multigenerational relationships should be valued by Christians because the multiple voices of all ages beautify the message of the Gospel together. In the book of Titus, Paul encourages a Church on the island of Crete to be a community of people of all ages who help and strengthen one another, ultimately reflecting the Gospel in their lives. He writes,
...teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God. Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled. In everything, set them an example by doing what is good. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us. (Titus 2:3-8, NIV)
As seen in this text, the Church should be a community of people of all ages who help and strengthen one another. Living out the gospel like this together is beautiful and purposeful. When people see the love for all ages of people within the Church, and when they see the mutual influence, inspiration, and friendship given and received by all generations, they will see the beauty of the gospel being lived out. As it is written in the book of John, “By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” (John 13:35, NIV). No Church is perfect, and this vision simply cannot always be lived out by fallen people. Nonetheless, it is important to set a high standard and value on multigenerational Church community. As Nancy DeMoss Wolgemuth (2017) put it in her book, Adorned, “When God’s Word is learned and lived out by older and younger women together, the outcome will be stunningly beautiful. Utterly captivating. A mirror reflection of Christ” (Wolgemuth, p. 47). This is the beautiful image that all Chrisian communities must strive for and what will be enjoyed in the new heavens and new Earth.
Ultimately, Christian communities must promote multigenerational relationships because they are mutually inspirational, beneficial to physical and emotional health, and they are part of the inherent design of the Church. Christians should be the first to bring this truth to the world, fostering beautiful and beneficial communities of many generations. I am blessed to have experienced such a community. Every year, it is my joy to be a part of a multigenerational mission team that travels to Eastern Kentucky for the purpose of running a Vacation Bible School for the children that live in the area. Children as young as four have served on this mission trip, as well as people as old as eighty years old. All ages are equally valued members of this team, and each have their own job. The children who help serve on the team forge long-lasting friendships with other children in the area, helping show them in some small way God’s great love for them. Older people provide vital leadership and offer a helping hand to anyone in the community experiencing hardship. Some older ladies from the community serve sack lunches to the children that attend the Vacation Bible School, caring for their physical needs as well as their spiritual ones. As a teen helper, I am happy to help my older friends lift things or reach high places with a ladder, but I am also able to give excitement and new ideas. While observing and participating in this incredible mission trip, I have also received so much wisdom and guidance as a result. This is a beautiful and tangible way in which I have seen a multigenerational community touch the lives of so many children at Vacation Bible School.
Multigenerational relationships are worthwhile and unique, but that does not disqualify other forms of friendship. It is extremely valuable to have friends your own age. In the same way that learning from the life experiences of those different from yourself is important, it is also beneficial to be able to discuss with and relate to someone in a similar walk of life as you. I have been immensely blessed to find there are other people with the same struggles, questions, and experiences as me, and I am certain the same is true for those older or younger than I am. There is only danger when you exclusively talk to people from the same generation as yourself. If this is the case, then much growth and wisdom is at stake. It is far more difficult to connect with and love your older or younger neighbor if you have no practice relating to other generations. It is important to balance the right amount of influences in your life.
Still, it is often far easier to connect with those of similar circumstances and experience than someone of a completely different life. Multigenerational relationships are beneficial, but they are certainly not always easy. Connecting with a parent or grandparent, for instance, requires putting yourself in someone else’s shoes to understand what their life is like. It takes compassion, it takes time, and it takes sacrifice. Despite the difficulty of forging multigenerational friendships, they are good and necessary. Friendships can be hard, but that doesn’t make them unworthy. They require Christ-like sacrifice, but they are worthwhile. Sometimes taking up your cross means to learn to love or take care of someone much older or younger than yourself.
You have something to contribute to your older or younger neighbor. You have something to give, no matter how old or how young you are. Christians must reclaim the beauty, truth, and goodness of multigenerational relationships. In a fallen world, the mutual support offered by multigenerational friendships are vital. Reach out to a younger person in your community and invest wisdom and experience in their life. Find an older friend who needs your inspiration and care. Sometimes all it takes to be a good friend to a person of a different age is to set a worthy example and be open to receive wisdom. Join fellow Christians young and old as you stitch together the beautiful tapestry that is an image of God’s redeeming love.
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